Happy Anniversary to ME!
It has been three years since I joined Thirty-One gifts as a consultant. I had NO IDEA how my life would change as a result of that one decision.
I saw a Thirty-One booth at our county fair in the fall of 2008. I remember telling my husband that I would never “do” direct sales but if I did, those were the products I wanted to sell. It stayed on my mind for months and when I saw that a friend was selling, I asked her for a catalog and HAD TO HAVE the skirt purse (this was the OLD one with the ties which I never use anymore because I like the newer style better but I refuse to get rid of it!). I booked a party with her for April but couldn’t wait to get my purse so I ordered it for my birthday in March (easiest birthday present my husband ever got me!). At my party, I talked more than the hostess did and she said I should be a consultant. There was a special that month that allowed you to join for $25 and they took the balance out of your first commission check…what did I have to lose?
In the beginning my WHY was to earn enough money to be able to buy Thirty-One and other “fun” non-essential things without worrying about our budget or feeling guilty for spending money. When I realized that I could actually make pretty good money with Thirty-One, my WHY was expanded. I had always said that I wanted to be home with my girls in the afternoon by the time Hailey started middle school. It was a dream because I never thought it would actually be possible. I was able to go part-time at my job in the middle of Hailey’s third grade year (and I owe a lot to my boss for allowing me to do that!). Now my WHY is to continue to be able to spend more time with my family and continue on our path to being debt-free (happy to say we have NO credit cards!). My WHY is also to share this opportunity with other women to empower them to have control over their lives and their finances and to be able to achieve their dreams. I especially love helping those that are trying to find a way to stay at home with their babies. I remember sitting at my computer desk during my maternity leave searching online for a work-at-home opportunity that wasn’t a scam or a pyramid scheme. That was not in God’s plan for me at the time but His plan is always greater than our plan! As I look at my downline numbers now, I know without a doubt that I am exactly where He wants me to be and I thank Him for his many blessings!
Thirty-One is not MY business, it is my FAMILY’S business. My husband is a HOTtie (Husband of Thirty-One) and supports me 100% even when that means helping me put labels on catalogs in the middle of the night! My children of course carry Thirty-One wherever they go and my oldest especially loves to tell everyone about Thirty-One and will tell them what they need to buy! My girls help sort orders when they come in, they help stamp order forms, label catalogs, etc. It doesn’t hurt that they know that our upcoming trip to Disney is being paid for by Thirty-One Dream Rewards!
I can’t wait to see what the next 3 years have in store for me!
A Cupcake without Calories!
What better way to celebrate your birthday than with a Thirty-One cupcake coin purse! Leah got this for her birthday as well as an MP3 player which fits perfectly inside along with her ear buds!
My Questions and Answers about Thirty-One!
If you have additional questions, please contact me directly at emilypage31@gmail.com. The OFFICIAL Thirty-One website is www.thirtyonegifts.com.
If you are like me (and you probably are if you are reading this post), then you don’t tend to make decisions without a lot of research, thought, and prayer. The following are some of the questions I had as I was making the decision to start my journey with Thirty-One and what I have found the answer to be for me.
Why is the company called “Thirty-One”?
I remember the very first time I saw anything having to do with Thirty-One. I was at the Lee County Fair in Sanford, NC. We were taking our preschool class to story time at the fair and we walked through the exhibit halls. Someone had a Thirty-One booth there and I immediately fell in love. The fair was only open for preschoolers so the booths were not manned and so I did not meet the consultant and could not ask questions. I came home that night and was trying to search online and I remember using a number of different search terms to try and find the answer. The name “Thirty-One” comes from Proverbs 31 which talks about a virtuous woman.
10 It is hard to find a good wife, because she is worth more than rubies. 11 Her husband trusts her completely. With her, he has everything he needs. 12 She does him good and not harm for as long as she lives. 13 She looks for wool and flax and likes to work with her hands. 14 She is like a trader’s ship, bringing food from far away. 15 She gets up while it is still dark and prepares food for her family and feeds her servant girls. 16 She inspects a field and buys it, With money she earned, she plants a vineyard. 17 She does her work with energy, and her arms are strong. 18 She knows that what she makes is good. Her lamp burns late into the night. 19 She makes thread with her hands and weaves her own cloth. 20 She welcomes the poor and helps the needy…25 She is strong and respected by the people. She looks forward to the future with joy. 26 She speaks wise words and teaches others to be kind. 27 She watches over her family and never wastes her time 28 Her children speak well of her. Her husband also praises her, 29 saying , “There are many fine women, but you are better than all of them.”
Learning that Thirty-One was a faith-based company was a huge factor in helping me to decide to become a consultant. I love knowing that I work for a company where the leaders prayerfully consider every decision and pray for everyone involved in their company.
What are the benefits of being a Thirty-One Consultant?
Of course, I also wanted to know what was in it for me. At the time, I really only expected Thirty-One to provide me with enough income to allow me to purchase more Thirty-One products and other fun items. I LOVE bags, purses, and jackets. I don’t know what it is about jackets but if Thirty-One ever added them to their catalog, I would be in heaven! Knowing that I would receive 25% commission on my sales right from the start, I realized that I really didn’t have to sell much to be able to have a little bit of “mad money” each month. When I signed on my first two team members and I started receiving overrides on their sales as well, I pulled out the Career Path again and realized that this could really become more than just a hobby and a way to make a little extra money. My “why” shifted at that point and I started thinking about how Thirty-One could help me to be at home with my kids in the afternoon. I set a goal to be able to be with my girls after school by the time my oldest started 6th grade. I was able to accomplish that goal half way into her third grade year. Being home in the afternoons with my kids has allowed me to get to know them so much better and to spend quality time with them that I wouldn’t have had otherwise. We have seen a big improvement in my oldest child’s grades as well.
Consultants also have the opportunity to earn other incentives and trips. We will be taking a family trip to Disney World courtesy of Thirty-One and we are all so excited and grateful for this opportunity!
I have realized that there are so many non-monetary benefits of being a consultant with Thirty-One. I’m able to have control over my dreams and I am able to help others realize their dreams and experience financial freedom! I have met so many wonderul women and have made many new friends who share the same passion I do for Thirty-One. If you would like to have a conversation about the Thirty-One career path and how Thirty-One can help you and your family, I would love the opportunity to talk with you in more detail!
How do I place a Thirty-One order?
If you already have a consultant and you aren’t sure of their website, you can go to the main company page www.thirtyonegifts.com and click on “Find a Consultant”. You can also view our monthly specials and place an order on my independent consultant website www.mythirtyone.com/emilypage
You can browse our catalogs and place your order online. If you live in Sanford, NC and would like to save the $4 direct shipping charge, you can contact me at emilypage31@gmail.com to place an order and I will add it to a local party order.
What are the benefits of being a hostess for Thirty-One?
Before I joined Thirty-One, I hosted a party in my home. I loved being able to get free products and half-price items. It was great because that meant I had extra items to show at my parties and I had the opportunity to experience what my future hostesses would experience. Being a Thirty-One hostess is fun! You get to have all your friends over and shop for purses – what could be better? You can always find the most up to date hostess reward program on the official company page www.thirtyonegifts.com
What is a “Skirt Purse”?
I’m not sure how I first heard about the skirt purse but it was some time between first seeing products at the Fair and hosting the party in my home. Once I heard about it, I had to have it!! In fact, I couldn’t even wait until my party even though I knew I would be getting hostess rewards and could get it for free or half-price! I told my husband I was taking care of my own birthday present and I ordered my first skirt purse! As soon as it came in, I put it on my desk at work and took a photo to post on facebook. Yes, I was THAT excited. You may remember the wooden-handled purses with interchangeable covers that buttoned on (well, if you were alive in the 70s that is). I still have my little one and I will often take it to parties with me for a bit of nostalgia! The skirt purse is a much more modern and classy version of this purse. The top of the purse folds over to hide the top of the skirt that is attached to the purse body by multiple metal fasteners. The skirts are very easy to replace making it a snap to change the look of your purse as often as you need to without having to transport all your “stuff” from one bag to another. The skirt purse comes in black or brown and is made with a high quality material that allows you to carry the bag without a skirt as well. The skirt purse comes with a free skirt of your choice. You can then purchase additional skirts to change the look of your purse without having to purchase a whole new purse! These are GREAT for traveling because the skirts pack flat and you can change your look to match your outfits! NEW FOR FALL 2011, the Skirt Purse now comes with a ZIPPER!!
What about fundraising?
Outside of Thirty-One, I am a program manager for a non=profit so I am always looking for ways to raise money and I like to look for things that are new and different from the same old gifts, cookie dough, candles, etc. I love that I’ve been able to partner with organizations and groups to raise funds for multiple causes. I’ve been able to use funds from a fundraiser we did at my program to provide staff recognition that we wouldn’t have been able to do otherwise. There are so many great causes and I can’t write a check to all of them no matter how I would like to so it is awesome to be able to offer to do a fundraiser for a great cause and donate my commission!
What is the “fine print”, you know, the “hidden details” they don’t tell you until you sign up?
In some ways I am very trusting but in other ways, I am very much a skeptic. I am the type of person that checks snopes.com before forwarding any emails or information that I’ve received over the internet. Thirty-One almost sounded too good to be true. Simple, easy, no complex commission structure or excessive sales requirements. In my mind, there are no hidden details.. Truly. Thirty-One is a faith-based company and there are no surprises, no schemes, no new requirements you discover only after signing up. I am sometimes a little too honest and will truly tell you like it is so if you have a question, please ask! Please don’t let the fear of the unknown hold you back from realizing your dreams! If you contact me regarding your interest in becoming a consultant, I will send you a ton of information and resources designed to help you make the most informed decision possible.
Is there a minimum I have to sell to stay a consultant?
I’m not really great at asking people for money or asking if they want to buy something so one of the questions that was very important to me was, “how much do I need to sell?” In order to remain an active consultant, you must submit a qualifying show or cumulative sales of $200 within a 3 month consecutive period. That sounded very doable to me and I felt comfortable that it would be an easy goal to reach (and it has been!)
Do I have to recruit new consultants?
Obviously if I am not good at asking people for money or to buy something, I was a little apprehensive at first about having to recruit team members. It was a relief (at first) to know that I had no obligation to recruit new consultants. However, I found that I was so excited about the company and the products that I wanted to tell everyone and bring everyone along on my journey. I have found that building a solid team means building a solid business for yourself!
What kind of support do consultants receive from the Home Office?
I have to admit that this wasn’t a question I personally had but it is a question I get asked a lot. I was just so excited about joining that I didn’t think about how I would learn how to enter orders, book more parties, recruit new consultants, etc. Of course, that meant I was thrilled to discover that consultants receive an unbelievable amount of support from the Home Office. The consultants-only web site is packed with party, business, and recruiting tools. There are regular trainings, tips for success and more! The Home Office also offers incentives and rewards for consultants throughout the year.
How much time does it take to be a consultant?
When my husband and I talked about me joining, time was a big factor. I was already very busy and we wondered if I would be able to put the time into my business that I needed to in order to keep going and be successful. I have another job, 2 kids, a husband, and church responsibilities. The amount of time you put into being a consultant is completely up to you. You can put in as little or as much as you have time for.
Is there an extra charge for personalization?
I LOVE personalization. I think it is partly a southern thing. Offer me a choice of two items, one without my monogram and one with and I am always going to choose the one with the monogram! I love that the embroidery in so reasonable. Embroidery is $7 for an initial, monogram, word(s), or name. For hostess half-price items, the embroidery is half-off as well. Embroidery is FREE on hostess exclusive items.
Do consultants get commission on personalization?
Early on I realized that personalization made up a good portion of my party sales. It was therefore awesome to find out that consultants make commission on personalization, retail orders, and hostess credit overage. Consultants do not make commission on hostess half-price items.
Are my expenses as a consultant tax-deductible?
I am all about getting tax deductions so this was a big question for me. What I found is that certain expenses are tax-deductible but you should speak to a tax advisor or accountant for help in determining your deductions.
What is a “catalog party”?
I have people ask me about “book parties” or “catalog parties” when having a home party is not possible or appealing to them. A catalog party is a party where the hostess passes out catalogs to friends, family, and co-workers and takes the orders and payment. The hostess decides when to end the catalog party and then passes on the orders to me and I enter them online just like a home party. I will also set the party up online so that people can order directly online and pay by credit or debit card. I provide emails that the customer can send out announcing the party and detailing how they can order.
I’m ready to make my dreams come true! How do I sign up to be a consultant?
If you are ready to sign up, please email me at emilypage31@gmail.com so that i can send you information on business supplies, career path, etc. I also want to coach you on how to set yourself up to earn $300 of products and business supplies in your first 45 days!
I’m ready to host a party and earn FREE PRODUCTS!! What do I need to do?
I LOVE to help hostesses get free products. I remember how excited I was to pick out all of my free stuff when I hosted my first Thirty-One party before becoming a consultant! Please email me at emilypage31@gmail.com. If you live within 3 hours of Sanford, NC, I can schedule a home party. If I am unable to help you with a party on the date that works best for you, I will refer you to another consultant. If you would like to host a catalog or online party, I will mail you all of the information and catalogs you need. If you live farther away and would like to host a home party, I will find a consultant in your area that will be happy to help you or you can go to the company site and click on “find a consultant”.
If you have additional questions, please contact me directly at emilypage31@gmail.com. The OFFICIAL Thirty-One website is www.thirtyonegifts.com.
Thirty-One Outlet
Lately, the number one search phrase that brings people to this blog is “Thirty-One outlet”. The best way to make sure you don’t miss out on a future outlet is to contact your personal Thirty-One consultant and ask to be put on their newsletter list. If you do not have a consultant, please contact me at emilypage31@ gmail.com (remove space after @) and I will be happy to add you to my newsletter distribution list!
When there is an outlet sale, it is up to the company if the sale will be open to customers or if it will be for consultants only. If the sale is open to customers and posted on the company’s facebook page, I will post this information for my customers on my facebook group, Emily Page’s VIP Customers and Hostesses.
Thirty-One Frequently Asked Questions About Thirty-One
Please see the January 5, 2011 blog post for updated questions and answers!
Ready to Host a Thirty-One Gifts Party?
So you’ve been eyeing a favorite Thirty-One product…maybe a utility tote or a skirt purse…but you just can’t justify the expense. Lucky for you, I have the solution! HOST A THIRTY-ONE GIFTS PARTY!!
What do I have to do to host a Thirty-One party?
All you have to do is pick a date and invite your friends! You can send out an email invite or a facebook invite and/or, you can provide me with a list of names and addresses and I will mail out invitations for you! You may want to provide a few snacks as well.
What if I have a small living space?
We don’t need a lot of room to have a good time! If you live in Sanford, NC, I will even let you use my house as long as you bring the snacks!
What if I don’t live in Sanford?
No problem! I will drive up to 2 hours from Sanford, NC OR you can choose to have an online/catalog party.
What is in it for me?
Thirty-One offers great hostess rewards and hostess exclusive items as well as a different hostess special each month!!
Things I learned from my sister, Julie
Because of our age difference (I won’t say how many years so that I don’t get in trouble), I didn’t always have my oldest sister, Julie, around. When she was around, I was either pestering her (I would hide behind the furniture in the living room when she had dates over and annoy her) or she was mean to me (sorry, Julie…you were…you played hide and go seek with Jo Ellen and I and you did not seek…that is just plain mean).
When Ed passed the bar exam and was looking for a job, he decided to call the DA for the 11th district just to see if they had any openings because we loved Sanford, knew Julie and her family loved it, wanted to live in a small town, and wanted to be able to see Julie, Jimmy, and our nephew, Jay, often. We were thrilled to learn that there was in fact an opening in the Lee County DAs office and Ed got the job. I feel very fortunate to have lived in the same town as Julie for the past seven years. I have been able to watch her parenting style with her two boys and much of how Ed and I parent is based on what we learned from Julie and Jimmy. Here are some of my favorite things I have learned from Julie:
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Laugh – no matter what is broken, ruined, stained, or lost…find a way to laugh about it because in the grand scheme of life, it really doesn’t matter.
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You are never going to have enough money to have children…money isn’t important, family is.
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Don’t scrimp and buy cheap cat food or you will pay for it later.
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Pay attention when filling out your address on work-related orders or you might just come home to find huge boxes of prom stuff on your front porch.
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If your kids want to just eat Cheerios and milk for every meal…let them. They won’t do it forever.
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If your kids want to sleep in your bed now and then…let them. They are only little once.
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Don’t stress about potty training. They’ll get it on their own time.
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Every child is different and you have to relate to them differently because of their differences.
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If someone offers to buy something for you…let them.
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Help your children discover their passion and listen when they tell you they aren’t interested in an activity.
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Finding a good deal on a great purse is reason to celebrate.
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You should buy yourself a birthday present.
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Let your children make their own mistakes…they’ll learn.
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The adventures you have with your children are more important than the “stuff” you give them.
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Kids heal…don’t stress.
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Petri dishes are a cool way to keep your matching jewelry together.
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Instant mashed potatoes can taste better than the real thing – and they are a heck of a lot easier.
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You can never have too many earrings.
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When you are pregnant, no one, and I mean, no one, will take care of you like Wesley Tyler, CNM.
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If you aren’t the best cook…marry someone who is.

